{"id":4790,"date":"2017-05-14T09:19:40","date_gmt":"2017-05-14T14:19:40","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.criplomats.com\/?p=4790"},"modified":"2017-05-14T10:14:22","modified_gmt":"2017-05-14T15:14:22","slug":"saying-goodbye","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.criplomats.com\/?p=4790","title":{"rendered":"Saying goodbye"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_4794\" style=\"width: 310px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.criplomats.com\/wp-content\/IMG_1077.jpg\"><img aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-4794\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-4794\" src=\"http:\/\/www.criplomats.com\/wp-content\/IMG_1077-300x250.jpg\" alt=\"Taps\" width=\"300\" height=\"250\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.criplomats.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/IMG_1077-300x250.jpg 300w, http:\/\/www.criplomats.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/IMG_1077-1024x852.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-4794\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Taps<\/p><\/div>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><span style=\"font-size: 14px; line-height: 1.5em;\">The memorial service for Joyce was yesterday in Malvern, Arkansas. It was lovely. Tommy Stiles spoke and did a beautiful job of telling how Joyce taught him and Dail how to play guitar. Two old friends performed a guitar duet. Aside from hearing Tommy speak, another highlight was a video of a picking session with Dail, Tommy, and Danny on guitars and Joyce playing fiddle on &#8220;Rocky Mountain Breakdown&#8221; &#8211; and especially moving to see beloved Dail, who we miss so much. His widow Nancy was at the funeral, and I know that meant a lot to her.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_4796\" style=\"width: 310px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.criplomats.com\/wp-content\/IMG_1087.jpg\"><img aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-4796\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-4796\" src=\"http:\/\/www.criplomats.com\/wp-content\/IMG_1087-300x300.jpg\" alt=\"With Nancy and Tommy\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.criplomats.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/IMG_1087-300x300.jpg 300w, http:\/\/www.criplomats.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/IMG_1087-150x150.jpg 150w, http:\/\/www.criplomats.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/IMG_1087-1024x1024.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-4796\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">With Nancy and Tommy<\/p><\/div>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><span style=\"font-size: 14px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><span style=\"font-size: 14px; line-height: 1.5em;\">We had lunch with Nancy before the service at Keeney&#8217;s store (an old favorite of Dail&#8217;s). David and Alison were also sweet enough to come to the service. Afterward, we drove to the Lono Cemetery where his ashes were interred next to his mother Myrtle&#8217;s grave &#8211; John and I were amazed that people still pull to the side of the road for the funeral procession to pass. Nice.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14px; line-height: 1.5em;\">After the graveside, the family got together at a local restaurant, including Danny and his kids and Carol and her oldest son Chris with his family. <a href=\"http:\/\/www.regencyfuneralhome.com\/obituary\/joyce-pipkin\" target=\"_blank\">Click to read the obituary.<\/a><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14px; line-height: 1.5em;\">I flew up on Wednesday and stayed with David and Alison on the lake until John arrived Friday afternoon. The lake was so relaxing &#8211; here&#8217;s a view from their porch and a picture of their new kitten, Buddy.<\/span><\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_4792\" style=\"width: 310px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.criplomats.com\/wp-content\/IMG_1055-e1494769514308.jpg\"><img aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-4792\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-4792\" src=\"http:\/\/www.criplomats.com\/wp-content\/IMG_1055-e1494769514308-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"Yes, that's a big ruby ducky!\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.criplomats.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/IMG_1055-e1494769514308-300x225.jpg 300w, http:\/\/www.criplomats.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/IMG_1055-e1494769514308-1024x768.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-4792\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Yes, that&#8217;s a big rubber ducky!<\/p><\/div>\n<div id=\"attachment_4791\" style=\"width: 235px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.criplomats.com\/wp-content\/IMG_1054-e1494769447272.jpg\"><img aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-4791\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-4791\" src=\"http:\/\/www.criplomats.com\/wp-content\/IMG_1054-e1494769447272-225x300.jpg\" alt=\"Buddy\" width=\"225\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.criplomats.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/IMG_1054-e1494769447272-225x300.jpg 225w, http:\/\/www.criplomats.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/IMG_1054-e1494769447272-768x1024.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 225px) 100vw, 225px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-4791\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Buddy<\/p><\/div>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14px; line-height: 1.5em;\">While in Hot Springs, I went to an art show with David and Alison where Alison&#8217;s sister Lori was having a show. I was tickled to run into my old friend Chuck Dodson there.<\/span><\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_4798\" style=\"width: 235px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.criplomats.com\/wp-content\/IMG_1057.jpg\"><img aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-4798\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-4798\" src=\"http:\/\/www.criplomats.com\/wp-content\/IMG_1057-225x300.jpg\" alt=\"With the very debonair Chuck\" width=\"225\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.criplomats.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/IMG_1057-225x300.jpg 225w, http:\/\/www.criplomats.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/IMG_1057-768x1024.jpg 768w, http:\/\/www.criplomats.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/IMG_1057.jpg 1536w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 225px) 100vw, 225px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-4798\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">With the very debonair Chuck<\/p><\/div>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14px; line-height: 1.5em;\">John and I spent Friday night in Mt Ida with his good friend Russ. We always love going up there to see him and all of their animals &#8211; currently four cats, four dogs, and at least one bird. Here&#8217;s Penny and Pickle.<\/span><\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_4800\" style=\"width: 310px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.criplomats.com\/wp-content\/IMG_1061.jpg\"><img aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-4800\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-4800\" src=\"http:\/\/www.criplomats.com\/wp-content\/IMG_1061-300x300.jpg\" alt=\"Pickle in a bowl\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.criplomats.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/IMG_1061-300x300.jpg 300w, http:\/\/www.criplomats.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/IMG_1061-150x150.jpg 150w, http:\/\/www.criplomats.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/IMG_1061-1024x1024.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-4800\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Pickle in a bowl<\/p><\/div>\n<div id=\"attachment_4801\" style=\"width: 235px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.criplomats.com\/wp-content\/IMG_1064-e1494770836958.jpg\"><img aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-4801\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-4801\" src=\"http:\/\/www.criplomats.com\/wp-content\/IMG_1064-e1494770836958-225x300.jpg\" alt=\"Penny and Pickle. Pickle let's Penny drag her around upside down - it's hysterical.\" width=\"225\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.criplomats.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/IMG_1064-e1494770836958-225x300.jpg 225w, http:\/\/www.criplomats.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/IMG_1064-e1494770836958-768x1024.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 225px) 100vw, 225px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-4801\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Penny and Pickle. Pickle let&#8217;s Penny drag her around upside down &#8211; it&#8217;s hysterical.<\/p><\/div>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14px; line-height: 1.5em;\">We flew home from our wonderful trip to Palenque last Sunday. I forgot to mention last week that we also saw gorgeous Scarlett Macaws flying overhead! Then I woke up the next morning a year older, and my work team made sure I had a fun birthday!<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<span style=\"font-size: 14px; line-height: 1.5em;\">This has been an odd tour. I came to Guadalajara with both parents and now leave with neither. I feel a bit unsettled and unmoored, but they both had good, long lives. I hope they are both at peace.<\/span><\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_4795\" style=\"width: 310px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.criplomats.com\/wp-content\/IMG_1083.jpg\"><img aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-4795\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-4795\" src=\"http:\/\/www.criplomats.com\/wp-content\/IMG_1083-300x217.jpg\" alt=\"Love the fiddle\" width=\"300\" height=\"217\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.criplomats.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/IMG_1083-300x217.jpg 300w, http:\/\/www.criplomats.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/IMG_1083-1024x741.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-4795\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Love the fiddle<\/p><\/div>\n<div id=\"attachment_4806\" style=\"width: 241px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.criplomats.com\/wp-content\/748A8FD2-5D87-41A7-9467-A4AF80AC5CCF.jpg\"><img aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-4806\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-4806\" src=\"http:\/\/www.criplomats.com\/wp-content\/748A8FD2-5D87-41A7-9467-A4AF80AC5CCF-231x300.jpg\" alt=\"And a hummingbird \" width=\"231\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.criplomats.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/748A8FD2-5D87-41A7-9467-A4AF80AC5CCF-231x300.jpg 231w, http:\/\/www.criplomats.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/748A8FD2-5D87-41A7-9467-A4AF80AC5CCF.jpg 570w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 231px) 100vw, 231px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-4806\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">And a hummingbird<\/p><\/div>\n<div id=\"attachment_4808\" style=\"width: 310px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.criplomats.com\/wp-content\/E181EDC9-F1FC-4611-9771-8494D32D3A40.jpg\"><img aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-4808\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-4808\" src=\"http:\/\/www.criplomats.com\/wp-content\/E181EDC9-F1FC-4611-9771-8494D32D3A40-300x197.jpg\" alt=\"Mom\" width=\"300\" height=\"197\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.criplomats.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/E181EDC9-F1FC-4611-9771-8494D32D3A40-300x197.jpg 300w, http:\/\/www.criplomats.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/E181EDC9-F1FC-4611-9771-8494D32D3A40-1024x672.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-4808\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Mom<\/p><\/div>\n<div id=\"attachment_4793\" style=\"width: 235px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.criplomats.com\/wp-content\/IMG_1070-e1494771355876.jpg\"><img aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-4793\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-4793\" src=\"http:\/\/www.criplomats.com\/wp-content\/IMG_1070-e1494771355876-225x300.jpg\" alt=\"Joyce\" width=\"225\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.criplomats.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/IMG_1070-e1494771355876-225x300.jpg 225w, http:\/\/www.criplomats.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/IMG_1070-e1494771355876-768x1024.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 225px) 100vw, 225px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-4793\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Joyce<\/p><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp; The memorial service for Joyce was yesterday in Malvern, Arkansas. It was lovely. Tommy Stiles spoke and did a beautiful job of telling how Joyce taught him and Dail how to play guitar. Two old friends performed a guitar duet. Aside from hearing Tommy speak, another highlight was a video of a picking session [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[4],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.criplomats.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4790"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.criplomats.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.criplomats.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.criplomats.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.criplomats.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=4790"}],"version-history":[{"count":13,"href":"http:\/\/www.criplomats.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4790\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4815,"href":"http:\/\/www.criplomats.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4790\/revisions\/4815"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.criplomats.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=4790"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.criplomats.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=4790"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.criplomats.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=4790"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}