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Mexico City

Sunday, November 22nd, 2015
With Ale, with Angel of Independence in the background

With Ale, with Angel of Independence in the background

I left on Tuesday to go to our ACS Chiefs’ conference at the Embassy in Mexico City. It’s always fun to see my co-workers from across Mexico and get a chance to interact face-to-face; I was also happy to see my good friend Ale, a wonderful local staff from Juarez who really taught me the ropes in ACS. Tuesday night a lot of us hung out on the rooftop lounge at the hotel, and Wednesday evening we went to a reception at our big boss’s house. My favorite was Thursday night when my good friends Tammy and Wendy and I had a girls’ night out – we went shopping at a little market (where I bought a cool silver Katrina brooch), followed by dinner at a great hole-in-the wall posole place. We were still talking ninety-to-nothing when we got back to the hotel, so we sat together a while longer and had dessert and coffee – very therapeutic! I haven’t really made any good girlfriends here in GDL, so I really enjoyed my time with them.

Last Monday was a holiday (another one!) and we had a good day at home. Yesterday I dug into my closet and tidied things up (amazing how much better I feel, having everything back in its proper place). We were settling in to watch TV when our downstairs neighbors called to invite us down for a game of Settlers of Catan – they have a friend in from Canada. We had four really fun games (with lots of trash talking) and we ended up staying until after midnight – lots of fun!

We love November

Sunday, November 15th, 2015

A great perk of working in the Foreign Service is getting double holidays – U.S. holidays plus those of your host country. For us in Mexico, November is great – this month we have a holiday every week! This week we were off on Wednesday for Veteran’s Day. I walked across the street and had a nice manicure-pedicure, then John met me for lunch followed by a trip to the VIP movie theatre where we saw the new James Bond movie – what a nice day!

Last Sunday I did a lot of shopping – a trip to Costco, the mall and the grocery store. I’m not a huge shopper, but it’s fun once in a while.

I do like shopping at arts and crafts fairs, which we did yesterday. John and I picked up his boss Ray and his wife for a trip to the annual fair in Chapala. It was a lovely day topped off by lunch at a restaurant on the lake. The only down side was the crazy traffic getting out of town – it’s “buen fin” – the Mexican equivalent of Black Friday. Everyone was trying to get to all of the sales around town.

Friday night after work, John and I went to a get-together of his gaming friends. It was at Emily’s house – lots of fun. We grilled and played games – very nice.

Today Rocio and Ana from work picked me up and we went to a party about an hour out in the country. Our co-worker Miguel had invited us for his son’s baptism party. It was in his small pueblo in a nice setting with a band and tacos – a real taste of small town fun! And it was a pretty drive out there and back.

Happy birthday, John!

Sunday, November 8th, 2015

Old and new machines

Old and new machines

John’s a full deck now – 52! His birthday present to himself is a new fancy-pants espresso machine (on the right in the photo). His previous machine has been great, but it was time to upgrade. He’s very happy!

We went to a fun party last night at a co-worker’s house – she made delicious pizzas. It was nice to get out and socialize.

The rest of the week was pretty normal. It felt like a long week, even though we had last Monday off. I helped with the local guards’ English class on Wednesday evening. Yesterday I went to the office to clean off my desk and work on personal paperwork that I never seem to have time to do (insurance, etc.). It feels great to have some of that kind of stuff done!

It’s a nice cool morning in Guadalajara today – we’re enjoying having the balcony doors open and listening to the birds while we enjoy our coffee from the new machine!

Cancun weekend

Monday, November 2nd, 2015

John on the beach

John on the beach

John enjoyed Vallarta so much that he made reservations for a quick trip to Cancun during this three-day weekend (the Mexicans are celebrating the Day of the Dead, so we are off today). We flew there on Saturday afternoon; that night we saw a Cirque du Soleil show, “Joya.” It was lots of fun, as Cirque shows always are. The venue is small, so you’re very close-up – very cool!

Sunday we got our gym workout in, then we laid on the beach all day, reading and listening to the waves – so pleasant! It wasn’t nearly as hot as Vallarta, and there was a constant breeze blowing.

This morning we worked out, had a great breakfast, then made our way back to the airport – before we knew it, we were back home!

The work week prior to this little jaunt was interesting. I had several interesting cases, plus I volunteered to help teach English classes to our local guard force at the Consulate. They are fun students – so eager to learn. The classes are after work – I helped with a beginner’s class on Wednesday and intermediate on Thursday.

Friday I went to the court in Chapala to check in on a case. There was a lot of standing around, trying not to get wet from the gloomy skies. After a few hours, things got resolved more or less and we headed back to the office in time for employees’ children to come trick or treating. The different offices within the Consulate really go all out with spookiness – the kids and the adults had a blast!

At the beach, I read a book called “The Other Side of Sadness: What the New Science of Bereavement Tells Us About Life After Loss.” I found it very interesting. In addition to discussing how non-Western cultures handle death and bereavement, he talks about his research into the topic. In short, he disagrees with Freud’s “grief work” or Elisabeth Kubler-Ross’s five stages of mourning (denial, anger, bargaining, depression, acceptance). He feels that people are much more resilient and more often than not are able to carry on just fine after a loss of a loved one (often coming out stronger or even happier than before).

My view on Sunday

My view on Sunday

Hurricane Patricia

Monday, October 26th, 2015
Hurricane Patricia image from weather.com

Hurricane Patricia image from weather.com

I left Puerto Vallarta just in the nick of time! Just a couple of days after I left, we started hearing about Hurricane Patricia in the Pacific. It quickly grew to a Cat 4 on Thursday, so my office had to get cracking. We planned to send crews down there on Friday morning before it made landfall, but Patricia quickly grew to a Cat 5 and we opted not to send our people into harm’s way. Long story short, Mission Mexico sent about 35 people down to the affected area early Saturday morning in anticipation of lots of Amcits needing evacuation or other kind of assistance. Most of those folks were either from our office or passed through our office en route, so there was a lot of coordination to be done. John, my boss, and I – along with lots of other folks – worked in the office pretty much non-stop from 6AM Friday morning until Sunday afternoon. Luckily, Patricia went south of Vallarta and didn’t hit nearly as hard as expected, so all of the teams were able to return either Sunday or Monday. It was a crazy weekend, but I learned a lot about disaster assistance.
 
The rest of the week is kind of a blur. I was happy Sunday morning to get in a workout in the gym, because it was impossible since last Thursday. I look forward to getting back into my routine!

Thanks to everyone who called or emailed to check on John and me. Guadalajara had some rain, but I think our friends in San Antonio got it worse than we did.